Tuesday, April 28, 2009

A Very Effective Way to Get What You Really Want

Why do some people appear more abundant than others? Are they luckier, harder working or are they onto something that the rest of us don't know about?

Movies like The Secret give us a great insight into the law of attraction and how we can attract our destiny if we focus on what we want but how many of us are manifesting our perfect lives?

Does it all seem too easy - you focus on something that doesn't exist and it comes to you right? Well yes, but this is only half the story. If you visualize let's say 'the perfect dream home for yourself' you may hear a subtle, almost inaudible inner voice and that voice seems to be plotting against you. Don't be alarmed, you're not going gaga this voice is your inner critic and everybody has one. It's the same voice that says "Who do you think you're kidding, you'll never get that house you're way out of your league." It's our inner critic that will stop manifestation in its tracks - for most of us anyway. You can override it if you keep on and on and on believing and (and this is very important) you don't have the heap of negative beliefs surrounding abundance that most of us have.

For many of us right from the time we could listen we've been saturated with the adults around us telling us to be careful with money, to save for a rainy day and even 'hoard your money and it will grow'. Well, it may grow - a little, but with these beliefs and many more going round and round our subconscious minds it will be pretty tough to get what we really desire. So what's the missing ingredient to manifesting our dreams? Getting rid of the negative beliefs and adding positive ones. It's bit like trying to find a piece of gold in the garbage - you have to go through all the garbage first.

We can do this in a variety of ways and the way that I'm more familiar with is called Emotional Freedom Technique or EFT. EFT is a remarkable tool to use with abundance because by focusing on negative beliefs while tapping with our fingertips on energy points we can get rid of blocks that hold us back. This allows us to manifest what we want straight into our lives. Some people may find it odd to tap on negative beliefs but what we are effectively doing is acknowledging the beliefs we have that are in our way, then giving them a big hug instead of what we always do - trying to ignore them or even fighting against them. In this way they will disappear because we've shone a light on them just like a fog when the sun comes out.

You will be able to manifest your desired destiny much, much quicker using EFT. It really is that effective. So, if you're stuck and feel like giving up on your dreams don't - try EFT instead.

By John Blosse

John Blosse is an Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Advanced practitioner and weight loss and abundance expert. He lives in Brighton, UK.

John says "EFT is subtle, yet very effective. It works both face to face and over the phone."

To visit my website go to http://www.emoshift.com

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